Ethereal Not Invisible

I need to stop being invisible, both in life and online . I felt pretty invisible for a long time; i've sought it out. Wrapped up in it like a security blanket. I have a bit of the ole social anxiety disorder, just a tad. It got worse after my marriage ended. If not worse, just more noticeable. I could almost completely opt out of social life when I was married, but now that i don't have a partner to come home to everyday, to talk to, to share with, opting out of a social life is psychologically unsustainable. So, I guess i should stop being invisible. I'm ok with ethereal. I can be tenuous. I can be barely there. It's a start.